#4400513 - 01/17/18 01:19 PM
An epidemic of female sex addicts
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HOOKED ON PORN An epidemic of female sex addicts is being created through the rise of women-friendly porn, sexologist warnsPorn sites say that 2017 will go down as the year when women really got into porn - but experts warn that this isn't always a good thing THINK about the words used to describe men who have lots of sex, and then compare them to the terms we use to describe women who do the same thing.This starts to explain the unique challenges faced by women struggling with sex addictions, in an age when easy hookups and even easier porn is always at your fingertips. Data from porn sites shows that 2017 will go down as the year when women really got into porn, with "female-friendly" clips and racy books like 50 Shades of Grey growing in popularity. Robert Weiss, top sexologist and author of Sex Addiction 101 says that in the past years of working with hundreds of sex addicts, he's noticed this trend too - but it's not always a good thing. Many people are empowered by porn, as they explore their sexuality and find ways to improve their sex life, watching it in moderation as part of a well-rounded lifestyle. But more and more people - particularly women - are finding themselves hooked. Robert told Sun Online: "I'm seeing more women struggling online than I've ever seen struggle before with porn and hooking up. "Traditionally, porn has been a mostly male venue, since women don't respond to immediate visual images in the way that men do. But while I've been dealing with men for 25 years, there have really only been programmes for women for treatment and care in the past five to eight. "What's happened recently is that pornographers are getting a sense of how to engage women - with stories and emotional connections as well as the porn." And while this is great news for many women, it can fuel debilitating addictions for others. Sex for the different sexesSex Addicts Anonymous estimates as many as six per cent of Brits - roughly 4 million people - are battling a sex addiction, while Dr Patrick Carnes, who popularised the term "sex addiction", estimates that one in five sex addicts are women. And this small group of women faces unique challenges as a result of the stigma which still clings to sex addictions. Robert said: "What I've seen is that women don't show up looking for help in the ordinary places. It's easier for a man to walk into a clinic and say he has a sex problem. "But on the internet, women feel more comfortable and so I'm seeing more of them reaching out and building communities online." Habit or addiction?The shameful and isolating nature of sex addictions, particularly for women, mean many people become hooked on sex or porn and don't feel comfortable asking for help. But where do you draw the line between a normal porn habit and an addiction to adult clips? Robert explained: "No addiction is defined by how much, how often or what kind. Porn is the same. "If the porn use becomes more important and more focused on than other priorities in life and they begin to suffer, then we talk about an addiction." And while it's easy to snigger at the idea of a porn addiction, the truth is that being hooked on sex or porn is just as debilitating as an addiction to alcohol, gambling or drugs. For many men, and now a growing number of women, porn addictions have destroyed lives. Robert said: "People lose their marriages, they lose their children, they lose their jobs. "Certain younger people who are more vulnerable end up not doing their school work or going on dates because they're looking at porn and their ability to function in life becomes directly affected. "But I don't believe that the porn itself causes an addiction. The main issue is the access. "It's one click and I have endless images - it never ends. For people who are vulnerable, the immediacy of access to that pleasure creates problems they wouldn't have run into years ago. It makes it more likely that people will struggle - and they do. "For some people its a fun way to get off, but addicts don't look at it that way. For addicts, porn is a way to escape, to not feel or to distract themselves - it's a way to function." https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/5326134/women-porn-sex-addiction/Can sort of confirm, not sure if positive or negative at this point?
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#4400548 - 01/17/18 04:17 PM
Re: An epidemic of female sex addicts
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Addictions of any kind aren't a laughing matter.
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#4400560 - 01/17/18 04:55 PM
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#4400564 - 01/17/18 05:07 PM
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Gimme a break. "You can't crack jokes about god", "The president is not a laughing matter", "Don't make jokes about immigrants", "you can't crack jokes about [insert favorite topic]"...
Granted, not every joke is for everybody, but the idea to tell other people what kind of jokes they are permitted to make is authoritarian, coming from the very same fountain as the efflux of political correctness. Give ME a break, where did I say "Hey, you guys can't laugh about this I forbid it!"? Go ahead, show me. I did however express an opinion. It is YOU who is getting sanctimonious about my expressing my opinion, not the other way around.
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#4400568 - 01/17/18 05:30 PM
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One thing I can't help but notice is how much the average um, skillset, has improved since the pre internet days.
Used to be, only a certain type of girl would do certain things, not so much anymore. Even the seemingly sheltered and wholesome ones can be quite the little knowledgeable enthusiasts now.
Yes, the internet is wonderful.
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#4400573 - 01/17/18 05:45 PM
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I'll be the buzzkill here, as much of what I see today (including hardcore internet porn), I don't see as being a positive thing. Romance has died. +1
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#4400579 - 01/17/18 06:11 PM
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Sex addiction is largely BS, an excuse made by cheaters with no respect and those who are too spoiled to just have a little self control. That’s not an addiction. Rather, not as attornies would have you believe. Being addicted to sex wouldn’t explain infidelity, just why your wife is always grinning but tired. I doubt there’s anything done in porn that couples haven’t been doing for hundreds of years behind closed doors. Well, nothing you would want to participate in at least.
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#4400586 - 01/17/18 06:49 PM
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Didn't you guys grow up in the '60s and '70s...? MarkG grew up in the 80's. He just acts much older. Lol. Also, location, location, location. I couldn't wait to get the hell out of Baton Rouge (Sept. '88) and live in a big current-day happening city (Atlanta/Jax.), and I was gone for 20 years! I came back (2009) to a brand new 80's FM radio station and all the live 70's/80's music I can possibly schedule on my calendar (so many I have to choose sometimes). Amazing how much hasn't changed around here, especially around LSU where there's tradition (long-time off-campus bars, restaurants and theaters). It's like I'm really living in the past, I think it screws with my brain. Oh, and living in the boonies doesn't help.
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#4400633 - 01/17/18 10:54 PM
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Lol, Crane Hunter. Death by Snu-Snu. Is "women-friendly porn" simply porn with a plot? Back in the day you could get sensual massage videos on VHS, whereas today (possibly years old now) there's a series covering most topics based on the Kama Sutra, both with high(er) production values and narrated by women. That's what I think of as being possibly palatable by women, or couples who have no interest in watching hardcore porn together.
The rusty wire that holds the cork that keeps the anger in Gives way and suddenly it’s day again The sun is in the east Even though the day is done Two suns in the sunset, hmph Could be the human race is run
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#4400639 - 01/17/18 11:22 PM
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One thing I can't help but notice is how much the average um, skillset, has improved since the pre internet days.
Used to be, only a certain type of girl would do certain things, not so much anymore. Even the seemingly sheltered and wholesome ones can be quite the little knowledgeable enthusiasts now.
Well at least in my country i can tell you it has NOTHING to do with porn, but pratical experience, i know 15 olds that are more experienced then a cougar.
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#4400698 - 01/18/18 05:59 AM
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It never occurred to me that "Hentai" and "Cheerleader" could be two distinct search terms. Weird.
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#4400787 - 01/18/18 07:00 PM
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"ASMR sex Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR) is a physical sensation characterized by a pleasurable tingling that typically begins in the head and scalp, and often moves down the spine and through the limbs." Eh, say what???
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#4400792 - 01/18/18 07:30 PM
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What the blazes is hentai?
I had to google it and I'm still at a loss as to what it is, maybe I should turn safe search off? It's Japaneese style animated cartoon porn. Some of it can get crazy since it's all just drawn cartoons. Like tentacle daemon crazy.
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#4400969 - 01/19/18 08:12 PM
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"ASMR sex Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR) is a physical sensation characterized by a pleasurable tingling that typically begins in the head and scalp, and often moves down the spine and through the limbs." Eh, say what??? Cool, I didn't know there was a word for this. It's what happens when you listen to your favorite music. You know, like Metallica's Orion?
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#4401032 - 01/20/18 05:00 AM
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I have to say that ASMR videos pretty much describe what I think is a good torture technique.
Imagine being strapped to a chair while some chick gets right up in one's face and starts whispering while she fingers the tongs of a comb. *shudder*
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#4401107 - 01/20/18 09:02 PM
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Wow surprised we haven't seen this on the BBC yet:
"Only 1 in 5 women addicted to sex shock, some liberal academic woman cannot believe this total lack of equality - blame all men she says"
I think that if the human race was dependent on womens libido it might have died out a long time ago.
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#4401357 - 01/22/18 12:59 PM
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I think that if the human race was dependent on womens libido it might have died out a long time ago.
Now silly, we all know that only affects married women.
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I think that if the human race was dependent on womens libido it might have died out a long time ago.
Now silly, we all know that only affects married women. Now, I've never had complaints about married women's libido, not my problem if their husbands did! In defense of married women who still have libidos matching their horndog husband... It takes two to tango!I've agreed to take Tango lessons (or Salsa, Ballroom, whatever she wants to try to learn).
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British members of this esteemed forum raise eyebrows whenever someone links to the 'Sun' news media here. Which one is worse? "The Sun" or "The Daily Mail"? I think they're in competition for the worst.
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#4572132 - 06/18/21 09:37 AM
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Thanks OG, much appreciated.
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#4572163 - 06/18/21 03:58 PM
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Yeah, I don’t think I will be as lenient in giving a chance in the future.
Good people sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.
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#4572211 - 06/18/21 10:42 PM
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I've met one, and let me tell ya boys...it ain't all it's cracked up to be...sort of. Gather round and i'll tell ya a tale of the ultimate woman we all (thought) we wanted when we were sex starved teens.
Brunette, brown eyes you would sink into, with a sculpted face highlighted with lips that even the Devil would get weak knees on sight. A body shape worthy of a rear window sticker on a young hoons car. In a two piece bikini she ruled the beaches and when dressed in 'oh i just threw this on' attire for an excursion to any sort of establishment, she made one rise an extra two inches (in height) just with the delight of her hanging off ones arm. Beautiful creature.
To top it off, no high maintainance, liked getting down and dirty working on cars, in the garden, an interest in many subjects so conversation was great and enjoyed a foray into pc gaming so much she built her own first rig. Perfect huh? Well yes...and no. You see, she loved sex. A lot. A lot more than i thought i did.
Inside, outside, in the kitchen, on the washing machine, the floor, the garage, the car, on the bonnet of the car at the airport at night, at her mums in the kitchen while her mum is outside in earshot on the phone, at the movies, before breakfast, after breakfast, during breakfast...you get the picture.
The first year it's like...i've died and gone to heaven and everyone around me is a mere earthly bound mortal. Her regenerative powers after a long session were amazing, and i must say, mine was pretty #%&*$# good too...for a while. Many bleary eyed mornings heading off to work with tousled hair and a smile you couldn't scrape off my face as i looked forward to knock off time and thoughts of what other tricks this delightful lady held in store for me.
That old saying springs too mind, careful what you wish for. Sometimes i would be met at the front door, and not go past it, never even make it inside and she was on me. Watching a race on tv when breasts are suddenly thrust in ones face where moments before fast paced V8s had been...i know, it sounds terrible. A firm and perfectly shaped bum pressed against one just as you are attempting to head out the door, a quick drag into a room at a function...it was never ending. But, it was also hard to deny when she melted you with those eyes and the absolute confidence in her nakedness.
By year three i was coming home late from work, i kid you not. Performance anxiety, she was outdoing me, like a thouroughbred with more to give pounding down the main straight whereas i was sweating and heaving with wide scared eyes and a foamy mouth at least four lengths behind. Her stamina was that of a 15 round old school fighter, and i had only trained for 12. I was gassed.
It just didn't stop. Ever. Remember Kyle Reese? it won't stop Sarah, it's a machine, it never, ever, stops. Needless to say, it fell apart, not for want of trying on both sides and we did manage a few more years...but phew, i pity the next guy...nearly.
Now there may be some who say they could keep up, and, i admire that. I thought i could too, and i did, for a few years. To have walked away from such a predicament, one that is so amazing caused much heartache, but also a small amount of relief.
Sigh.
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#4572252 - 06/19/21 03:35 PM
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Odd thread for spam bot to necro...
Anyway, I'm guessing we've all at least enjoyed some nympho glimpses, if nothing on Ajay's level. A 20 year-old husband learns quickly how to interpret his wife's pill dispenser in the medicine cabinet (the ones in the late-80's/early-90's were round, the circumference had the days of the month labeled, and it clicked when you turned it). You could read it like a flow chart (Yes or No and if Yes check Intensity). It predicted your short-term romantic future better than a Magic 8 ball.
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^ Skinny legs and and head bow...yeah. That nagging look...nah.
Now I want Popeyes. Mmmmmmmmmm…..Popeyes. Make sure you ask for “Cajun Sparkle”. Great spice.
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I assume you recognized who she is? Nah, only by the pic name... 02-ginger-rogers-legs.jpg (730.11 KB)
The rusty wire that holds the cork that keeps the anger in Gives way and suddenly it’s day again The sun is in the east Even though the day is done Two suns in the sunset, hmph Could be the human race is run
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