As for favourite SAM systems for SAMSIM, I'd have to go for the Antey 2500/S-300VM, now thats a serious system.
Yeah, it was so serious, that eventually nobody could got it outside of the Soviet Union...
Hpasp Free SAM Simulator, "Realistic to the Switch" (U-2 over Sverdlovsk, B-52's over Hanoi, F-4 Phantoms over the Sinai, F-16's and the F-117A Stealth bomber over the Balkans.) http://sites.google.com/site/samsimulator1972/home