On takeoff everything is normal up until i reach a speed of 140+ and are about to clear the ground and suddenly the ship makes a instant climb, crashing the tail into the runway, flies up out of control and crashes...
You need to be faster before you start pulling on the stick. Especially (as said before) with heavier loads.
The nose is coming up, but since you have not generated enough lift, the whole body of the aircraft can't lift and you end up in a aerobrake situation. Notice when landing how fast the nose will climb while aerobraking unless you are careful not to pull too much on the stick. It's kind of like rocking back too far on the back legs of a chair (in a wind tunnel!). You reach a point where there is too much weight to the rear and everything goes over the top and...boom!
Also keep in mind different stores may have different drag and weight characteristics. Wing tanks may have less drag than some bombs but are more cumbersome.
On a full load of bombs and wing tanks I'm usually at 175-180kts before I start pulling back on the stick and I just "ease" the stick back rather than "pull".
If you don't think any of this applies to your issue, then I would suggest checking the x and y axis calibration and also the throttle calibration. Remember that there are several "stages" of afterburner and if you don't have the afterburner set back a little in your throttle sweep, you won't get 100% out of your burner. (i.e. the bar in the controller set up should go past where you have AB set when you have full throttle applied)
HTH
-schnidrman