Though primarily F16 related, you may find some stuff here

http://www.viperpits.org/smf/index.php?action=forum

FlightGear has an F14b that can be flown in multiplayer mode both as Pilot or RIO to another player in the pilot seat. Weapons are simulated, but have little effect since FlightGear is not a combat simulator. However there is a set of scripts that allows for aerial dogfighting of sorts. All the cockpit and aircraft data can be extracted through multiple protocols, so driving external instrumentation is possible, though it might require a pretty large effort as there are no ready-made solutions. And both he plane and simulator are open source, so if you have some pet-peeve you can always modify it yourself to fix it.

Not an F-14 but didn't Wings Over Vietnam allow for a pilot and WSO/RIO in the game? I seem to remember flying some missions with a few buddies a while back like that and one of the guys had his wife flying as the RIO.

http://www.lotussim.com/

its not f-14, but the dual pits are great

OK, looks like am going to go with the F18F two seater. Back seat will be a bit genaric. So, if you know of anybody with the F18 send me a note. Using the VRS Superbug and someday hopefully the Tacpack will be out.
Thanx for the support.

A possible resource: http://www.thesimulatorstore.com/

Got some nice stuff there. A bit pricey for my blood tho, more on a low budget build=:(

Hey guys, does anyone know if I would be able to use 2 TrackIR systems. 1 for the front seat and one in the back seat? Also, are there any other ready made MFD panels out there besides Thrustmaster? Thanx, Kory

I pulled these images off ebay in 2002:

thanx, K6. I have started on an F18F 2 seater...