I'm a firm believer in the generic mod enabler and use it religiously now, it will protect you from jacking up your RF but you must be diligent and either go all in or not at all to fully realize its benefits. It doesn't really address making use of stand alone instances though, but there's no reason you couldn't use it on a stand alone mod either if you ever mod the mod so to say. As a general rule for me, if a mod offers a stand alone option, take them up on it, all it uses is addition storage and it wont effect your main RF at all. With the stand alone option, you don't need an already existing additional instance of RF, it will create it for you.
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Jay "DaBirdski" Eklund
In thrust we trust