Hi
Turismo Carretera Stock Cars Argentina has settings for good joystick control. It is based on GMotor2, so it is much like rFactor. TrackIR does work with it. The cars are a real blast to drive. Not really fast, but have a great feel to them.
NFS, well, I never liked these games, so I can't say much about them other than rather cheesy.
F1C can also be played with a joystick, due to setting options it has. TrackIR only works via 3rd party applications. I actually played a small part in getting TIR into it. A great game for sure, but getting pretty dated now. Still lots of mods out for it though and worth buying, if you can find it priced fairly.
Another one you didn't mention is rFactor. Among the best out right now (I consider it the best).
Mods for any type racing you can think of. Enough options for joystick control. Native support for TrackIR. I would recommend it above all others. It has lower class cars to start out with, both tin tops and open wheelers. It's perfectly fine for someone new to sim racing. And, it can grow as your skills do.
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