Well i'm not really in position to tell you what PC you need, but...I don't know, it seems a bit strange to me that your PC stutters bad with 4+ planes...I think you should rather consider this being a technical problem of some sort, and not a lack of performance of your PC.
I play RoF on a Toshiba P300 1el laptop. CPU is an Intel Core 2 Duo T5800, GPU is a Radeon HD3650 512Mo.
In free flight, i did the test a few hours ago, i get 20 FPS when on ground, and in flight around 25 FPS.
FPS almost don't drop when there are a few planes in the sky, BUT when there are 10 + planes, it becomes unplayable. It doesn't really stutter, it feels more like some sort of lag, probably due to CPU shortage.
Cheers
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