Congratulations and salute!
It's a thrill, isn't it? I can still remember my first...and regardless of when you finally get it, you're sure to get many more from here on out.
I don't believe RoF has a "no cockpit" view the way that some other combat flight sims do (e.g., Battle of Britain II: Wings Of Victory or RB3D with its old "transparent cockpit").
Even it were available, however, I wouldn't recommend it. Instead, turn on the "aiming" helper in the options screen along with all of the icons (friendly, enemy, navigation). That will help you get a better feel for targeting. After awhile, turn the aiming helper off but keep the icons. Finally, turn off all of the icons! It might take awhile, but you'll get there eventually.
And now that the 1.008 patch has finally cured the "wobbles" that all of these planes had, you can actually line up a decent shot!
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Dumbo
Intel Core2Duo E6600 2.40GHz processor
Asus P5W-DX mobo
2.0 GB DDR-2 Samsung RAM
NVidia 7950GTKO 512MB PCI-E
SoundBlaster Audigy2
19" Acer LCD monitor
CH Fighterstick/ProPedals
TrackIR 3-Pro