As someone said above, taking a photographer aboard for Air2Air who is not experienced is simple unprofessional on the part of the people who make possible that flight. If they really care for high quality usable pictures which have value for marketing and promotional use, they need to use the person with the most experience. Also, does she even have an outlet to publish those pictures (magazine, website?). I understand how guys and pilots work, but I can only assume these are private aircraft since it would be a waste of tax payer money if we're talking Armed Forces public affairs here.
If it's any consolidation to you - in Austria it is currently pretty impossible to go A2A with the Army or any other government aircraft, and for private ones it's hard enough. The upside is that if you do manage to convince someone for a ride, you can be sure you got it based on past performance and quality of your work, not for tits.