So you are saying you are ugly and are considering a sex change?
Yes to the first part, and maybe to the second...

I understand how the world works, and am not really upset, I actually find it kind of amusing, and just thought some others here could appreciate the story.
I think in general, especially in aviation or autos, if you get a girl who is very attractive she'll be given alot of attention. Is it fair? Hardly, but what can we do? At least you can stand behind her at an air show and admire her assets.
I would be pretty upset if I was in your position. Your photography is very good and to do air-to-air stuff is challenging because you are the person in charge of positioning both airplanes. Speaking strictly from a safety stand point, I wouldn't want to be in an airplane with a photographer that doesn't know what she is doing.
Thanks, and yeah, I'd love to get the opportunity to do some air to air shooting, but would also be stressed that I would screw something up, and it would end up wasting a lot of money.