I figured that was the issue. I recall some other online games not being able to support two players using the same IP
I'll just keep connecting the way I am since I'm the only person affected.
My RoadRunner internet runs very well, since I am literally up the road from a major backbone (fiber!)
I've also stacked the deck in my favor. Every summer, all the neighbors have a big neighborhood pig roast. Since they know Im a bank IT person, they ask which is better, the local DSL offerings or Road Runner. I tell them how horrible the cable connection is, so they all go DSL. More bandwidth for me (insert sly Scooby Doo laugh)
I'll put up my Dedicated Server up again tonight, look for a CheckSix! server in HyperLobby.
Also...does anyone know when HyperLobby will allow you to select the new Desert Storm Campaign?